Hear Everyone, But Choose Wisely for Yourself


Hear everyone, but do what is compatible with your life wisely.

So many people will give much advice, like what to do, how to do, etc.

Agree, yes, they have been sharing their views or inputs from their own or heard experiences, but it is not necessarily fully compatible with your life decision. 

It could be your family members or friends or teachers or colleagues, or anyone.

They bring their experiences, advice, but you have to be wise about it and decide what is or what will work for you.

Many times, elders' sayings could be true, but due to changing dynamics or new technologies in today's everyone's life, even 1% can change the whole scenario, thus you have to analyze the whole situation first, and based on which you will need to make any decision and gain confidence on your own.

Also, that will help in not blaming anyone or even yourself after what is done, whether right or wrong.

 Yes, if the outcome is good, take proud in it, but do not let it rise as an ego, but if the outcome does not work accordingly, try to learn from it and try not to repeat again. 

But what I have observed over time is that many times decisions are influenced through our parents or partners or friends, etc, with or without our knowing, i.e., consciously or unconsciously.

In such a case, first try to identify it and take responsibility for the decision, and try to acknowledge it in your life, and again try to make any decision wisely, kindly, or empathetically, and surely the outcome would be good that you may or may not be aware of.

Again, whatever the outcome might be, try to acknowledge it, and you will surely feel good about it.

 Also, a point is that our well-wishers are not always wrong, but considering the situation you are in, no one would know better than you if you are fully aware of it. 

They are trying to help, so don't take it the wrong way, but do try to consider it and hope that the outcome is fruitful in its deserving way.

I believe the main motto is always look out for good in everything, and you should be happy and grateful for everything.

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