Aditya Pooji

This topic might be very relatable and might be occurring in many houses. Individually, as a parent or child, both need to understand and decide on a common base, whether they are both opposite to each other or together in any situation or condition in front of them. During the babyhood, the parents will be around or giving most attention to their kids in growing them or pampering them at every moment, giving unconditional love or constant attention. After a while, when the child grows, they become a bit hesitant and get freed from constant attention, and are left on their own in a few cases. Not because the parents love them less, or  it might not be purposeful, but the parents themselves might be going through a lot in terms of family pressure, or career-related, or financially wise, or it could be any other reason. Likewise, the child also must be going through a lot, for example, exam pressure, comparison, inferiority, friend circle, etc.  It could be anything or any reaso...

Hear everyone, but do what is compatible with your life wisely. So many people will give much advice, like what to do, how to do, etc. Agree, yes, they have been sharing their views or inputs from their own or heard experiences, but it is not necessarily fully compatible with your life decision.  It could be your family members or friends or teachers or colleagues, or anyone. They bring their experiences, advice, but you have to be wise about it and decide what is or what will work for you. Many times, elders' sayings could be true, but due to changing dynamics or new technologies in today's everyone's life, even 1% can change the whole scenario, thus you have to analyze the whole situation first, and based on which you will need to make any decision and gain confidence on your own. Also, that will help in not blaming anyone or even yourself after what is done, whether right or wrong.  Yes, if the outcome is good, take proud in it, but do not let it rise as an ego, but if t...