πŸ’” Feeling hurt, heartbroken, or just low? This one’s for you.


 Ok, so i know you are hurt, heartbroken, or could not describe that feeling since some other person has blocked you. It is breaking you. Your body is reacting in some weird, uneasy way.

You have your sibling by the side but could not express or share with them because they may not understand it properly or they may react the old way like when any such thing happened in the past. Like they may get angry or they may not focus on it, try to divert your mind.

Many people would treat this as a nonsense or useless thing you have been dealing way. It is their way, if they are well wisher, it is okay but still you are one facing it because you are overemotional and oversensitive due to which you are affected more but you have to cope with it asap.

Yes, diverting is the solution, but you need something else to cope with this feeling or situation. Again, you don't know the exact reason, just asking any simple question or any other reason. Only the other person knows, and definitely, you could not ask that specific person because of no connection now. 

Now, what to do? Firstly, i know it feels hard but try to write this problem somewhere so you will understand the impact or what is hindering you. It should give you some clarity. Then, try to divert your mind through hammering any good or funny new things on Instagram or any online application if that is an easy option. Go out for a walk or run for some time till when you are some out of breath, and all your focus will be on breathing properly.

Yes, it is not easy but you have to elect which one is better. This one thing which is hurting badly or the good things you have in your life. I can assure you that based on your capacity, you may forget these things wondering whosoever have blocked after a day or week or month. That totally depends on you. 

Yes, something that same application or some related message or any videos or anything could trigger that emotion and why that person left you. Agree, it is is super hard sometimes, you could not describe it or share it with any body but trust me you have to get out of that space and be indulge in activities that keeps you engaged or happy for sometime at least. It could be a movie, talk with a friend or family regarding any random topics, you could try to portray your situation as someone else's and share it.

Yes, there is a risk of other people guessing or understanding as your own problem, but you could try taking that path very convincingly. I know it it tough to roll over it even you had a sleep over it and hoping to forget everything but waking up after a night's sleep or nap, it strikes your head after few moments.

Also if it makes you feel better think like they do not deserve you in a way you have different capabilities. Again don't blame them or curse the other person, that way will end up developing negative feelings or thoughts but try your best to move on to next and focus on good, positive things around you or create a new one. 

Hoping that you could find its solution through one way or other but more effectively or easily or quickly than it took me. One day there will be and you may forget this everything but you have to recall and now try to analyze where you are and how far have you made it.

Yes, it is taking time, but someone out there is right for you and universe is waiting to make it happen or lets say preparing you to be patient, understanding and kind before it happens along with gratitude. 

Once it happens you will be accepting it with wide hands open and full of gratitude and positivity. 

Wishing you best and all prayers for you to make it till good.

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